Yo, chill. You can always make your point just fine without resorting to aggression or making it personal.
I’d suggest treating this as an opportunity to reflect a bit on patience and tone. Speaking from firsthand experience, these are things I’ve had to work on myself over time, helped in no small part by this community and @dang’s exceptional patience for which I'm quite grateful. I now owe HN therapy money as well, lol. :)
More generally, it would be nice if we made a conscious effort to keep HN a little less negative overall [1].
