Definitely not! Otherwise they'll only give you a small raise from what you were making. If they don't know what you're making (and you're underpaid), you'll most likely receive a much bigger increase.
Your link references papers that talking about uneducated buyers buying and selling things (or services like car maintenance). Not the same as applying for a job.
If you try to anchor too high when asking for a job you won't be considered for it because they think that you want more money than they can afford to pay.
I'm surprised anyone would think that 20% returns are over the top - outsized returns in markets are hardly an industry secret. Triple digit returns are not unheard of. Most of the people making big money don't exactly advertise and some are downright reclusive. But they certainly do exist.
I recommend reading http://www.amazon.com/The-New-Market-Wizards-Conversations/d... and the other versions in the series - I think there is 4 now. These are candid interviews with the individuals involved. They are good reading just for the interested entrepreneur.
This is absolutely false, making more money can make you subject to the AMT (and potentially a higher marginal tax rate), but you will never be in a situation where if you make an extra $1000 you'll owe an extra $1001 in taxes.
You invest your excess money in the stock market (hopefully returning more than 3.5%) instead of paying off your mortgage early.